A very simple, yet oft-overlooked, truth about the modern dating scene is that neither men nor women think and act like machines. It’s quite normal for the ebb and flow of life to have an effect on the level of interest they feel towards one another. And, since women are the fairer sex, it’s also pretty common for men to be on the shorter end of the stick when it comes to maintaining a connection with their desired partner.
Losing interest is often a natural consequence of being pulled in so many directions on any given day. A beautiful woman rarely goes more than a few hours without being courted by yet another willing suitor.
So what can a man do to keep her level of interest from fading in such situations?
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While there’s no foolproof method that works in every situation, there are a few steps you can take to optimize your chances even after her interest has waned. Below are 4 actionable tips you can use to attract a girl who has lost interest in you.
1. Try Challenging Her More
The trick to challenging a woman is to not be predictable in your demeanor. This doesn’t mean you have to be a douchebag and contradict her at every turn, but simply that you have the green light to try something new since what you’ve been doing thus far obviously hasn’t worked.
Think of new topics to discuss. Consider asking her out in creative ways. Be more aloof and less available. Anything that shakes up the routine you two are currently engulfed in can work.
In Video 6 of the Girlfriend Activation System, relationship expert Jason Capital gives some really awesome ideas on how to create attraction by being a challenge to women. It’s one of my favorite programs, and I highly recommend checking it out if you get the chance. This Girlfriend Activation System V2 review is a great place to start.
2. Focus On What You’re Good At
When you’re caught in the middle of trying to get a woman’s attention, you can easily lose sight of other things in your life, be it your friends, your family, or your career. So it’s a great idea to recharge your batteries by diverting some of that focus to areas where you’ve already proven your worth. Enjoy your life and allow her to miss you.
If you’re a social butterfly, go out more and have fun with your friends. If you’re an introspective sort, try getting yourself involved in a hobby like writing or playing music. Getting out of your head can do wonders to your self-esteem, which is essential when it comes to rekindling faded attraction from old partners. You’ll need that confidence if you want to reconnect with a girl who has lost interest in you.
3. Continue To Flirt
Flirting makes you feel better. It makes everyone feel better.
Flirting with attractive women gets your blood rushing and boosts your confidence levels. That, in turn, translates into your actual behavior when you’re ready to get back to your main crush.
The idea is not to needlessly bump up your ego, but simply to remind yourself that you have something to offer as well. No person is insignificant and everybody deserves to love and be loved. More importantly, a woman who has lost interest in you is much more likely to take a second look if she knows you are desirable to other women.
4. Don’t Be Afraid To Let Her Know You’re Ready To Move On
The fear of loss is very powerful. When they’re deep in the throes of unrequited love, men can get quite clingy and often refuse to let go. While it’s normal to harbor at least some frustration in such cases, you must understand that not only is it counter-productive, it’s also completely unwarranted.
There are tons of beautiful girls out there who’d be very happy dating a well-adjusted man. If it’s your ex you’re after, moving on and dating someone else is one of the quickest ways to get her interested in you again.
The truth of the matter is that every relationship is difficult to maintain. If you want to attract a girl who has lost interest in you, the only thing you can really do is focus on being a whole person and allowing yourself to be honest with regards to your own intentions and desires. Being needy, insecure, and trying to “chase her” will only push her further away.